Monday, December 29, 2008
After Christmas Lull
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Saturday, November 29, 2008

For Thanksgiving we joined my mom, dad and brother at Black Angus for a lovely feast. The best parts - Fun conversation, wine, and I didn't have to cook anything nor clean one little plate - heaven! After our early dinner we came back to my house for apple pie (gasp: no - not a pumpkin pie), coffee, and more conversation.
My mom makes THE best apple pie ever. Katie was so cute. She had two huge pieces. Half way through the second piece she got an awful tummy ache, but kept eating anyway. She said she was trying to ignore the pain because the pie was THAT good.
Ken tried the pie and grimmaced. Super - more pie for me!
We got our Christmas tree up and the lights on outside the house. This is great because I'm sure I won't have the energy to put toward Christmassy things while I'm teaching these next three weeks (but who's counting).
Monday, November 24, 2008
A Visit From Grandma Judy

Rick's mom left this afternoon after a week long visit. I had to work during half the visit, but the time I got to spend with her was really nice.
While I was working my long term sub job, Judy, Rick and the kids did crafts and played games at the house.
Friday day, Judy and Katie made mini pumpkin pudding pies for Katie to take to her Girl Scout Feast. It was a special time for Katie and her Grandma to just be together.
Friday evening the kids went to their friends house (and Girl Scouts) and the three of us grown ups went Christmas shopping. It was a successful trip and now Judy doesn't have to ship gifts to us and the kids will be getting things they put on their wish lists.
Saturday I got out my jewelry making supplies and made more lanyards and fixed a few broken ones. Judy helped me while Katie worked on her scrapbook. Kenny played Wii games and Rick worked on his truck bumper.
Oh - did I forget to mention Rick backed into a pole? Yup. His truck is only two years old and he whacked it good! With the help of a neighbor he was able to pound out the bumper to Rick's satisfaction (yeah we don't have to buy a $300 new bumper). Now all he needs to do is get color matched paint to touch up some places where the paint cracked.
Later on Saturday Judy got to see Katie NOT play in another soccer game. Katie was freaking out about her breathing problems and didn't play (more on that later). She also got to see how Rick turned into Dumbhead Coach who forgets how to be dear ol dad. We're all human, but it's aggrivating for me being in the middle of the stress.
Sunday night Katie, Judy and I went to see a local production of Annie. Katie and Judy had never seen it before. Of course, I had to refrain from standing up and singing all the songs. It brought back great memories for me. My parents took me to see Annie in Hollywood/L.A. when I was around Katie's age. I bought the song book and memorized all the songs. It was a fun evening for all three of us.
We all enjoyed her visit, but Kenny was the most emotional about having to say goodbye. He cried when she left and moped around the rest of the day. He is excited about being able to email with her using our Wii email system (Katie is too).
Friday, November 21, 2008
Survior
I officially survived parent teacher conferences. GO ME! After only knowing these 4th graders for 3 weeks and struggling to complete their report cards - I DID IT!
I was really eye-opening to conclude that all parents truly know their kids. Even when I was telling parents their kids were failing certain subjects or that their social behavior needed drastic improvement, parents were not surprised at all. Often when I had to share less than desirable news, parents would say it was still an improvement over last years marks.
My friend (and master teacher while I was student teaching) sent me a wonderful gift. She sent me a beautiful flower arrangement with a note saying, "Have fun this week. You can do it!" I received it during school hours and the kids were having trouble understanding why I had tears in my eyes and a smile on my face. It was so touching and sweet of her. Having those flower on the table with me during the p-t conferences made it feel like she was sitting there with me, rooting me on.
After this very stressful situation I am confident that p-t conferences with my own class and students will be a breeze.
One week off for Fall Break won't be nearly enough time to recuperate, but I'll take what I can get!
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Spinning Heads
Sorry my blog is so not-up-to-date. I started a long term sub job (early cause the lady had her baby 5 weeks early) and my head is spinning with the adjustment. Katie's been sick for a month solid now. 1st with pneumonia, and then bronchitis -both with airway constriction. The infection is finally gone, but the trouble breathing is not - we are seeing a specialist this month. Combine that with Rick coaching both kids' soccer teams, soccer games every Sat., Kenny and Katie adjusting to having a working-mom, figuring out who is doing the household chores now and general day to day stuff and it leaves little time to update the blog. I am hoping to be more "normal" with updates after Christmas (hey at least I am realistic).

Monday, September 22, 2008
Fair-Weather Friends (the feathered kind)
...Get it? They both have weather names *grin*.
The kids are enjoying their little pets and take them out every day to tame them and get them to used to being handled (without the fear of being eaten). Both birds have to be encouraged (i.e. grabbed) to get them out of their cages, but once they are out they don't mind perching on fingers. I try to talk to them every time I enter each kid's room. I am trying to teach Kenny's bird to say, "Hi Ken," and Katie's to say, "Hi Katie." We'll see how well that goes. Since neither kid is a good whistler, I have been given the job of teaching each bird to whistle a tune.
...more later.
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Nervous Ned goes Independent on us
The kids finally went out and played a little basketball around 3:30.
Then at 4:30. Ken declared that he was going to go on a bike ride by himself! Rick looks at me. I look at Rick. We both know that we were off riding our bikes for hours at a time at seven years old. ... but in this day and age, should we let our baby boy out on a bike by himself?
I say, "Ok." Rick is as apprehensive as I am. I loaded up the 2-way radios with batteries so Ken could keep in touch with us. Rick called our neighbor where Ken's would be riding to (Our neighbor's daughter did the same thing and rode to our house when she was 7). He would be riding a total of 1.25 miles (there and back). Rick even made him wear a whistle around his neck to blow if the radios didn't work.
... and off he went. Now, I thought for sure Mr. Nervous-Ned-I-Hate-Anything-New (aka KEN) would get five houses down the street and turn around - but nope. He checked in with us when he had gotten around the big curve in our street and checked in a second time when he got to his destination.

You should've seen Rick and I standing in the middle of our street - just waiting for Ken. Like being in the middle of the street somehow made us closer and more able to help him... but independence must be gained by oneself.
Now, don't think we're going to make this a habit. Cause I'm not really ok with it... but I had to let Ken sprout some little wings.
Ken was all grins when he got home. Katie was still in shock that Ken did that. She won't even stay home by herself for five minutes. I am sure she'll be sprouting wings before we know it too.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Soccer Saturday (again)
The morning was really cool and damp. Ken loved playing in the cooler weather. He said it helped him run harder and longer. His team, The Bears, won by a large margin (something like 11 t0 2). Ken scored two of the goals. Here are some pictures of him working hard and having fun.


Ken's shoots his first goal. Picture above & Video (shot by Katie) below.


Katie's game was late in the afternoon. Her field is HUGE. Her team, The Cardinals, is not the most talented bunch of girls, and a good number of them are just not very eager to play hard.
Katie did her best however and said she had fun despite the 0 to 6 score. For the first 40 minutes (1st half) she played back and helped protect the goal. She has a natural ability to know where to put herself in relation to the ball and the goal. Most girls her age don't have this skill. After a 10 minute half time break, Katie played the rest of the game in the goalie position. She let a few balls get by (heck I would too, that goal zone is HUGE), but stopped quite a few too.




Her drop-kicks are getting really good. I am glad she is enjoying herself, despite the score. Her teams has only scored one goal in three games.
Rick is beside-himself in frustration about how to coach these girls and get them to improve. He literally has been mulling it over in his head all weekend.
Sunday, September 14, 2008
Fred Astaire in the Making
Kenny spent Saturday with Rick. First playing hard (and winning) in his team's soccer game (Go Bears!). Then doing daddy/son things.
Sunday found us sleeping in and then Ken and I went to his best friend, Abigail's 7th birthday party. It was a dancing themed party held at a local dance studio. Ken was the only boy there and took a good 20 minutes of cajoling and tough love to get him to participate. Once he got up and was moving he was happy as a clam. The kids were learning a dance routine from the teenie-bopper movie High School Musical 2. The song was called, What Time is It? Since Ken was the only boy in attendance the dance teachers gave him special attention. They named him Troy, after the lead male in the movie. When the girls had to do a "diva walk". Ken was asked to have an attitude walk and walk with his arms crossed. When the girls put their hands on their hips, Ken was asked to strike a pose with his muscles showing. Too cute and very fun.



In all honesty, I think Ken did an exceptional job of keeping time and remembering the steps. Dancing might be something he persues when he gets older. Someone needs to lift and twirl the girls.
My favorite part of the day was watching Kenny in the cake room flirting with the teenage dance teachers. ... a sign of things to come *grin*.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Girl Scout Camporee

Katie and I skipped soccer this Saturday to attend our local Girl Scout Camporee. Normally Camporee is held in the summer, but it had to be postponed due to the smokey air from local fires. I volunteered to be a helper-mom. It was fun, but exhausting at the same time. Our troop didn't have any adults as a certified "camper" so we didn't stay overnight - which I was thankful for.
We all met at the leader's house at 7:30am and headed up to Sly Park, Jenkinson Lake in Pollock Pines. We got there about 8:45 and set up our day camp in the same area as other troops who were setting up to stay overnight.
The girls had a busy morning activity schedule. Canoing, Swimming and Archery. Katie didn't enjoy the canoing, which suprised me considering how much she likes kayaking at the Russian River with the Ghidossi family. I think it was a bit too early and too difficult to control the big canoe vs. the one-man kayak. Katie vetoed swimming big time. The water level was SO low and the bottom of the lake so muddy, kids shoes were getting stuck in the mud. Katie just dangled her feet of the little boat dock and watched her friends swim in the mucky water. We had enough time to head back to camp for the girls to change into dry clothes.
Then we headed to archery. The lady who ran that event was a... crab apple. Each girl only got to shoot six arrows and half of those they didn't shoot by themselves because the teacher and helper would saddle up to the girls and "show" them how to shoot. Now I understand that archery is a big safety issue, but I felt sad for Katie and her friends. They seemed to like the bow and arrow and just needed some time to get the hang of it by trial and error. I was even wishing I could try it, as it looked fun.
From archery we went back to camp and ate our sack lunches, visted and sang silly songs. Then, the girls had SWAP time. Each girls brings a trinkety item on a safety pin, introduces herself to other girls from other troops, then they exchange the little items. Katie (and I) made little flip flops using foam, ribbon and a brad. They were cute and the ones she received were adorable. We still haven't had a chance to review them all.
After SWAPS it was time for badge rotations centers. The gi

Katie enjoyed the different centers, but got really hungry and got a stomach ached in the middle of it all. I am glad I was there to get her some Tums and snacks to soothe her pains. All the girls were hungry by the time we were done.
Bless our troop leader's heart. She had to think of so many things to pack, even for just a day visit. She remembered *almost* all of it - except the barbeque for cooking the hot dogs. Luckily a neighbor troop cooked up our dogs for us.
I've been neglecting to mention the interesting twist of this trip. Across the street from the Girl Scout campground is a public campground. It seems it had been rented for the day for a wedding. Seems simple enough - but the girls were magnetized to the event. Whenever we were at our campsite they would peak over and try to catch glimpses of the bride and groom. That was all fine and dandy. It makes sense, as the girls were raised on princess fairy tales that culminate in a grand wedding... but by the time we were getting dinner together the reception had started... and so had the party music. The girls were dancing and singing along (some not realizing the lyrics were not appropriate for 10 year olds). I certainly am not against rock music and being silly, but it really detracted from the "outdoorsy" feel the Girl Scouts were trying to promote for the day/weekend.
The leader and I tried to distract the girls and have them practice their skit they were to perform. They bought into that and practiced over and over; unless a really "good" song came on then they dance and sang to that.
Before the official campfire meeting time, the leader and I lead the girls away from the music and our camp, over a hill and to the waters edge. It was truly my favorite time of the entire trip. We found flat rocks and one girl taught the rest how to skip rocks. Hey, enjoying nature at Camporee... imagine that!

At campfire time we all the troops got together and took turns leading silly camp songs, throwing their wishsticks into the fire, and peforming their skits. Our girls did a great job (even if they had to do all this over the pounding sounds of the wedding reception just 100 feet away.)
When campfire time was done and the other troops went back to their base camps to settle in for the night, our troop took over the fire and made s'mores.
I was worried that all that sugar would amp-up the girls for the ride home, but the five girls in my van were fast asleep within 5 minutes of leaving the lake.
Katie and I made it home about 10pm. It was a long, dirty, fun day.
ps: I am SO glad we didn't stay overnight. I heard from another leader that the wedding party went on till 3am!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Recently Rick hurt his knee playing soccer (you know, the same knee he had surgery on after he had severely dislocated his toes. The same knee he injured prior to having two surgeries on his hand - all from soccer). Needless to say he went back on my "Bad Soccer-Playing Husband" list. It freaks me out when he hurts himself playing soccer. Beside the fact that I love him and hate him to be hurt/broken in any way... he's our major breadwinner. Surgeries are risky, lead to too many missed days of work and will lead to extra aches and pains as he ages (not to mention a b*&chy wife).
He went to a specialist, had an MRI on it, has paused his soccer playing, has been babying the knee with a ace-brace, and got the results yesterday.
He did not damage the meniscus, as he had suspected. It turns out he sprained the MCL and BADLY bruised the end of his femur at the knee joint. The MCL will heal soon but the bone bruise will take a few months. The doctor is concerned that he might have damaged the cartilage at the bruise locations and says it takes 6 to 12 months to fully heal. Rick was told to avoid soccer, etc., until January to give it time to properly heal.
Boy he sure is lucky he doesn't need surgery (for many reasons). Most of all, he is off my "Bad Soccer-Playing Husband" list and he is happy 'cause I'm not demanding he quit playing all together.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Growing our Flock
The requirements for the bird (to make it the best pet it could be) was that it be a baby (less than 3 months old & hadn't had it's first molt) and hopefully a male (it's hard to determine the gender when it's a baby). Katie found the bird she wanted at The Bird Shop and a nice size cage. It was a very very hard decision for her to make. She waffled once the clerk caught the bird and Rick held it. BUT when she heard Kenny wanted the bird if she didn't --- she changed her mind and decided it was hers.
Kenny was so torn up over deciding at The Bird Shop he actually got a stomach ache. With a little convincing that we could come back on Sunday if needed, we left that store and headed to another. Kenny found his little sweetie at Petco (just down the road from the bird shop). His bird is much younger.
On the way home we stopped at PetSmart to get Ken's bird its cage. Rick and I felt like we sprinkled the kids' money all over Sacramento County in this venture.
Once home we set up their cage locations with seed and water. Both kids kept a close eye on the new members of our flock. The little birds were (and still are) so scared. They've been taken from their bird siblings and put into a new environment with very large creatures (us) that might eat them at any minute.
This will be a long lesson in being rewarded for patience and hard work for each of the kids.
Neither little feathered friend has been named yet. Katie's bird has a pale yellow face and turquoise blue body. Ken's bird is mostly white with a sky blue color on it's lower half.
Saturday, September 6, 2008
1st Game & a Goal
Katie didn't play because she has an upper respiratory virus that's kicking her energy in to super low gear.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Earning a Pet
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Age of Sail Here We Come
...more on this later I am sure.
Friday, August 29, 2008
"My lips are numb, my cheeks are puffy... and it's Awesome!


"My lips are numb, my cheeks are puffy... and it's AWESOME!" exclaimed Katie as she blew with all her might to get some noise out of *her* trumpet.
Yes. Katie is joining beginning band in 5th grade. She has chosen the trumpet for unknown reasons - well, actually, the band teacher had a little assembly and showed all the instruments and how they sound. She thought the trumpet sounded the coolest. She will start her classes on Tuesday - so we'll have a weekend or more of mysterious and funky sounds being spewed out of the instrument.
Of course we are renting-t0-own the instrument, cause if she's anything like me she won't stick with anything. Did you know I've had classes/lessons in the flute, clarinet, ice skating lessons, sailing and modeling? Can I say I am successful in any of those? Nope --- But I could be a runner up Plus Size Model for the Blind (laughing at myself here).
Just wanted to share Katie's excitement in her new musical adventure. I'll keep ya posted on her progress... meanwhile I might need to go to the local drugstore and invest in some ear plugs for Ken, Rick and myself.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Already out of a job!
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Summer is Officially Over

The kids and I started back to school yesterday. Katie is in 5th grade this year (the year she rules the school). Kenny is in 2nd and nervous about the whole new situation that awaits him.
Since I had to start my day subbing at our local middle school, Rick had to get the kids dressed, fed and to school. By the time I got to our elementary school (subbing 25% at middle school/75% at elementary), the kids were in class. The few times I saw Ken during the day he was much more somber than usual. It turns out he had a rough start in the morning - he hates any new situations with a passion. He held back tears and was nervous as can be. Rick reports that Katie was nervous too, but her desire to see her old friends outweighed any anxiety and she was fine. My day entails visiting classrooms and supporting students with learning disabilities. It was an easy going day really and I got to visit Katie's classroom and observe how many different teachers kick-off the school year. When we got home I made some homemade ice cream. After we ate it, I went to lie in bed for a bit - the next thing I new I had a child snuggled up on either side of me and we were all taking a nap. We slept for about 30 minutes, got up, took a shower and were in our jammies before Rick got home at 6:30. It was a long tiring day for all of us.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Runner Up Prize

I got disappointing news today. I didn't do well enough on my teaching job interview to get put on "the list" of candidates they call when opening crop up.
I did get the runner up prize though ~ a long term sub position as a Special Education teacher. I will spend 25% of my day at the local middle school and the rest at my kids' elementary school. It'll be a wonderful addition to my resume and a great experience to boot.
The kids have mixed feelings about it all. They really don't want me to go to work, but were brought to tears when they saw me crying and whining earlier today.
Rick is going to help out by changing his work hours so he can get the kids to school for me. Friends and family will pitch in here and there on days I need to work late (which I hope are few).
So many people have been praying, thinking good thoughts and just hoping things go my way ~ it does a heart good to know so many people are rooting for me. Thanks!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Welcome Soccer Season
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Great News on the Job Front
While driving from my Nana's chapel service to her graveside service I got a cell phone call. It was a secretary from the school district where my kids go to school. They want to interview me for placement into their second hiring pool. Yes!!

The end of summer is proving to be very stressful in many different ways. Isn't life funny and beautiful and full of adventure?!
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
Saying Goodbye to Nana

Nana, My ray of sunshine
Hi, My name is Trina. I am Polly’s granddaughter.
I stand here today in a place of profound sadness.
My heavy heart only lightened by special memories of Polly, my Nana.
We knew Polly’s life and health were fragile for a very long time.
But there was something about her tenacious hold on all of our hearts,
and on life itself, that makes it really hard to believe she’s gone.
Her body may be gone, but she lives on in the deepest fiber of our being.
It is enough for me to know that I knew what her house smelled like after her adventures in cooking, the broadness of her smile, the light in her blue eyes, the sound of her laugh, the firmness of her voice, and the fact that she loved me and that I loved her- unconditionally.
When I hear the words of scripture, - “although we are afflicted, we are not crushed,” Nana’s sparkling eyes and radiant smile come to mind. Polly taught me about perseverance and the importance of family. For the majority of my life Polly struggled with the physical obstacles of only having use of half her body, but to me she was whole --- because she loved me with her whole heart.
I have great memories:
of her teaching me to play gin-rummy (and constantly letting me win);
of helping her tend to her garden (man she had a green-thumb);
of me, as a 12 year old girl, watching my handicapped Nana flag down her favorite Padres players and MAKE them sign MY baseball glove (Go Padres);
of her yummy desserts baked with love.
Her life and memory live on in all of us: her friends, her sisters, her children, her grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews … My hope is that those memories will remain as strong, stubborn and full of life as she was - until we see each other again.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Tahoe Vacation Day 5
Thursday was our last day. Rick and I spent the morning cleaning up and loading the truck. The kids clung to their last few hours of the Disney channel. On the way home we stopped in Pollock Pines at Los Hermanos, my favorite Mexican food restaurant in Northern California. It was a great ending to our vacation. Once home we unloaded in the heat of the day and started up the clothes washers.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Tahoe Vacation Day 4






It was the kids' night to decide where to go out to dinner - they chose IHOP (ah to be a kid again) - so that's what we had for dinner - it's legal cause we're on vacation!
Once back at the cabin Rick and I began to pack things up, while the kids enjoyed one last dip in the spa.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Tahoe Vacation Day 3






It was late in the afternoon, but the kids made the best of it digging in the rough sand and wading in the shallow *cold* lake water. I lounged on the beach and Rick took out his stunt kite and gave it a spin (it was certainly windy enough).
We headed home for a spaghetti dinner, back out for HUGE scoops of ice cream at Camp Richardson & back to the cabin again for soak in the spa & a good night's sleep. Ahhh the good life.